.Friday, December 19, 2008 ' 1:39 PM♥.
Recently, lotsa lotsa emotions overwhelm me. One moment, i can get veri angry. The next, i will get veri upset over small matters. Perhaps somethings doesn't seems like small matter to me, esp when comes to handling of kids.
Nah.. It's not abt my PILs.. It's abt me, hubby and his brother (of coz, my BIL). At times, it realli makes me wonder, juz these 2 kids belong to who? Me & hubby's or his brother's? Obviously they belong to me and hubby's, but whenever Jayden make a big fuss at home, he(BIL) will wanna step out and make Jayden even more noisy. Eg. Recently, Jayden has caught up a habit of screaming (tried stoppin in millions of ways but to no avail.) and running ard the house going in and out of every room. Everytime Jayden enter his room, he will get angry and scold Jayden, threaten to cane him..etc. As Jayden's mummy, i will get angry. To me, onli me and hubby can cane him, why muz u poke ur nose into this matter.
Juz like ytd, hubby took urgent leave to stay at home since i wasn't feeling veri well. In the evening, as i am feeding Shermes his milk, Jayden climb up a stool and play with the water in the kitchen. I walked into the room and scolded hubby(he's sleeping) to wake up and get Jayden down the stool and out of the kitchen. Pretty much from wad i noe, hubby scolded Jayden and caned him(lightly lar). At this moment, do you noe wad his brother do? He walked out of his room, crossed his arms, attempting to watch "show" Oh well, i chipped him away, asking him to get back to his room and dun come and poke his nose into this matter! The rest of the thing is hubby brought Jayden into our room and cane him. How he cane i dunno. Apparently it seems like he cane the cupboard. I did scream at hubby outside the room to get him out lar
Den later on, abt 5++pm, my MIL came back home and guess wad, my DEAREST BIL "complained" to his mum tat hubby caned Jayden!!! Hell man!! Wad a "SMALL" mouth he has!!! Of coz, Jayden will continue on and tell my MIL. hubby caned him. Hubby later on luff off saying,"Ur grandson complaining to you ar.." I told hubby,"aiya even before ur son complain, SOMEONE alreadi COMPLAIN to ur mum le lar.." I juz dun like it lor... Why muz he treat all these things like watch a movie? Should i provide popcorns for him everytime Jayden gets a beating??
One more matter abt him. As i've mentioned above, Jayden like to walk in and out of every room, esp his room as it is nearest to the living room. He told hubby ytd, "Ur son keep walking in and out of my room, how am i to study?" He is talking Pte "A" Levels FYI. HA!! Why my brother can study when Jayden is screaming like mad at my mum's place and he can't? Ask himself, when he is suppose to be studying, wad the heck is he doing? Play warcraft, watching Taiwan Series and, SLEEPING!!! You call this study?! He is given the chance to study he dun wan. I am not given! I fail my "O" levels and took up a pte dip. My dreams were shattered the moment i fail my "O". Did i complain abt noisy? NO!!
I tell you, if now i am given a chance to study, whether noisy or wad, i will give my best to study.
Haiz... this is my onli avenue to vent my anger. Even if i tell hubby, i doubt he will do anything to it. My onli hope now is my PIL faster sell this flat, den i can move back my mum there. At least over there, i will be happier.
Note: Ytd, a ladder fell onto MIL's foot in Giant Tampines. Lucky no bone factured.
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