.Monday, February 9, 2009 ' 11:06 AM♥.
Pris showed me the above link. Yes, it's veri sad, but yet it is so so true.
On one part, the govt wan us Singaporeans to give birth to more babies to boost the popularity growth, yet on the other part, companies in Singapore replaces our job to other ppl during/after our maternity leave. How sad can this be? Veri or perhaps, extreme. And, how true can this be? Extremely true.
Be pregnant is a joy to the family but is a threat to the company(unless ur company is pro-family). Being a mummy, we go thru 9 mths pregnancy(which includes all the vomitting, aching..etc), den the birthing process, afterwhich, we watch our bundle of joy grow up. To all mummies, this is joy. But when we return to work, there are onli 2 possibilities.
1. You get replaced.
2. You receive full loads of welcome from everyone at work.
But be cruel and get real, option 1 is usually the case. Haiz... In this cruel society, women are usually seen as the loser(unless you are so strong tat no one can take over u or pull u down). Too bad as it is. Like me, after i come back frm my leave, mani things were taken off me. I still have my job which i am glad, but most of my jobs were spread out. One part i am angry, but another part of me, i am glad. At least, i wun have to rush in and out of office like mad. Whatever it is, i will stay happy. All i am waiting now, is Mabel to take over the bridal shop den i will be gone.
Enuff of this. Now to talk abt hubby. Recently, i've been veri mad abt hubby(perhaps it's PMS tat got me since auntie is visiting me..haiz..) It seems like things he do will make me flare. Haiz... Or probably most men are like tat.. i dunno.. Pardon me since wad ever i am going to sae is in chinese.
有时，我真的不知道要如何说你好。说你对我好，这可是真的。说你不好，我也不知要气还是不气好。就说我和孩子就好。每一次，当我忙得快疯了，你却不帮忙，坐在一边，玩你的电脑，看你的电视。要你帮忙，叫了好多好多次，你才脸黑黑的帮忙。我错了吗?
就像上个星期六，我咳得快没气了，你也没理。等到我开始唠叨时，你才去找药给我吃。半夜，要你给小儿子喂奶，你也情不感心不愿的喂。告诉你很多次了，你一定要看时间，可是，最后，你还是没看。作天也是，小儿子就在你旁边嚷嚷的那么大声，我不知你是故意还是无意，你宁可和你的同事八卦有的没的，也不去抱抱他。你的那些八卦那么重要吗？你可以不要事事都要我，我妈咪，和你妈做好吗？你好歹也是两个孩子的爸爸，你也有责任照顾他们。你累，我也累。你得工作，你也有工作。可是，我还是每晚上妈咪家看他们，抱抱他们，放他们睡了才回家。我不累吗？天天要搞到12点才睡，隔天，7点就要起床。我们做的这些是为了我们想要拥有的家，为了给孩子快乐，为了我们的未来。我真的希望你能好好的想想。
你是我选的老公。我没后悔选了你。你再不好，也是我选的。你对我的好，我看到，也会放在心里到黑发变白发。
老公，我爱你。사랑해
